The biggest trend in weddings remains to be personalization. The formula for an American wedding is pretty basic- ceremony, cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, pictures, dinner, more cocktails and dancing, cake, then more dancing. According to Bridal Guide, the average bride spends up to 9 hours a week planning her wedding. This planning and personalization has changed the way weddings are viewed and planned- these days almost one quarter of weddings are destination weddings. Venue choices have veered away from the traditional church wedding as well- Hudson Valley Weddings reports that 35% of weddings are now held outdoors. Read on for…